By Connie Hendricks
Change happens to all of us every day. Transitions are a part of life. However, transitions can be very difficult for children (and many adults). We assume because a child has attended school before that it will be a smooth transition from year to year. We especially assume this in a small school where the students attend from junior kindergarten through eighth grade.
The truth is, transitions happen every year and change is always occurring every day on some level. The junior kindergarteners are becoming accustomed to separating from their parents, learning how to be a student and how to get along with others; the kindergarteners are being re-introduced to the same and in addition to a whole new set of rules and expectations as are the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th graders. As students transition into 5th and 6th grade the expectations are even more focused on independence and personal responsibility. The 7th and 8th graders are expected to master many of these skills in order to successfully transition to the high school level. If you think this sounds daunting; you can imagine how the student feels.
Teachers and parents can help by guiding students as they reach new stages and encouraging them to take academic risks and to push themselves out of their normal comfort level in order to reach new levels. Establishing a “Get Ready the Night Before” policy at home will help with morning meltdowns. Be realistic and don’t fall victim to over scheduling; making sure to leave enough time to do homework and for family time. Most children are more adaptable then we give them credit for and much more capable of developmentally appropriate independence than we as adults feel comfortable. Allowing children to try on their own, make their own mistakes, and learn from those mistakes in the end helps them to realize their successes. Change is necessary for growth!



